Starting from Rs. 565!!!
Go Grab one as soon as possible. Not from the market!
From your house!
Why do you need a pressure cooker when you have one at home?
Parents, Your greatest gift is the silence you receive and a few 'Yes Mom' and 'Yes Dad' from your child but do you know that in turn is sometimes, a curse for them.
Are you an open medium to talk to them when they need you? Even without an age bar or an age group? Think about it yourself. To all parents who say a 'No' or discourage them or expect something from their children, please understand that indirectly, you are asking them to fulfil your wishes against theirs.
To all the pressure cookers including me, we all listen to our parents' remarks about poor marks. Be it good or bad! I am not calling for a protest but have an opinion about it and talk about it! Talk to the whistles of the body! To all students who take their advice and remark seriously, who are quite sensitive, what happens if you do not meet their so-called 'expectations'?
You receive remarks! A sad face or a 'you can do more better'. The idea behind these remarks are for our future but aren't your hard works seen? We all know that they are telling it for our good, for our future. But do they understand how much effort and sweat you put into whatever you are doing? They know you are doing it but do they really do? Do they really know so deep to understand what your studies constitute?
They are providing finances for your studies, so why don't you educate them about what you study before allowing them to make a remark? We all are quite sensitive. We have cried, worked hard, sacrificed sleeps to get to a point I love but if the results are overturned? Then?
Sometimes, we sit and cry. It doesn't even get out of our heads even if we let it go. We all are scared of failures because of the heights that we have achieved. Have an opinion of your own about it and speak it out! How will they know if we don't speak to them about it?
Parents, Expectations are good enough. It's not bad to have them but don't expose them! Expose it when they want you to speak about it. You don't pressurize them directly but isn't a word called 'expectations' enough to make them tensed and pressurized indirectly? They are humans too. All the students win, lose, fall and stand straight. One remark is enough to make them cry and sleepless. (especially children of this generation, including me and them)
To all parents who have visited a psychiatrist for your child, haven't you understood what their problem is? Haven't you failed at that criterion which they exposed to a third-person? If you are imposing or rather 'expecting', your duty as a parent remains unfulfilled and blanched. Instead of expecting, praying and supporting them, wherever there are or however they might be, is the only option for your child to achieve greater heights provided that they have the fire inside them. Allow them to speak out whatever they need.
If you think I am criticizing your ways of parenting, then know that I am letting you know what is happening inside us before, at least some of us take the final step to let the pressure out of ourselves!
To everyone including parents and students, Efforts should be appreciated, not marks! Students, if you do not get the desired marks, appreciate your efforts and build up your A-game. To parents, appreciate them for their efforts and encourage them. Ask them not 'what has happened this time'.
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